You know something needs to shift.
But you’re not quite sure what kind of support you need, or who to speak to.
Mentor?
Counsellor?
Coach?
(And if it’s a coach… what kind of coach?)
Let’s break it down.
🧠 A counsellor helps you process and understand emotional patterns, trauma, or mental health struggles. It’s about healing, understanding the past, and feeling supported through life’s heavier seasons.
🧭 A mentor is someone with experience in your field who offers guidance, wisdom, and insight based on having “been there.” They’re like your future-self, a few years ahead.
🚀 A coach works with you in the present, to elevate your thinking, clarify your goals, and build sustainable momentum.
But even within coaching, the options can feel like alphabet soup:
- Executive Coach
- Leadership Coach
- Performance Coach
- Life Coach
- Business Coach
- Personal Development Coach
- One-to-One Coach (a format, not a type)
Here’s the truth:
🔹 The label matters less than the chemistry.
🔹 What matters is how they work, what you want, and whether they can take you there.
So how do you choose?
✅ Start by asking yourself:
- Do I need emotional support or performance challenge?
- Do I want to grow professionally, personally, or both?
- Do I need someone who listens, questions, or provokes?
✅ Then:
- Speak to a few coaches.
- Ask how they work.
- Don’t be afraid to try a session.
Coaches are, by nature, ‘people people’. We want to understand your goals, and if we’re not the right fit, a good coach will say so.
💷 And what about cost?
That depends.
A coach who helps you shift your entire leadership trajectory? That’s an investment, not an hourly rate. But there’s a wide range.
Think of coaching like hiring a personal trainer for your mind, your leadership, and your life.
And the best ones?
They don’t tell you what to do.
They help you figure it out; and then support you to do it.
🎯 So, do you need a coach?
If you’re reading this, it’s already crossed your mind.
Start the conversation. It could be one of the most important decisions you ever make.
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I’m Laurence Loxam – I’ve pushed limits in business, on mountains, and at the finish line.
Now I help elite professionals do the same, pushing past the point most people stop.
I coach CEOs, doctors, lawyers, and founders who’ve hit success, but still feel there’s more.
Together, we unlock clarity, sharpen confidence, and lead with conviction.
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