Let’s be clear: I love AI.
I use it often; to brainstorm, summarise, repurpose content and push my thinking. It saves me time, gives me options, and helps beat the blank page.
But when it comes to how I connect with people, especially on LinkedIn, I draw a firm line.
🤖 AI Can’t Build Trust but YOU Can
Plenty of people say:
“Automate your DMs.”
“Use AI to reply to connections.”
But to me, that misses the point.
When someone connects with me, they’re not a lead; they’re a person. They’ve opened a door. And they deserve more than a generic “Thanks for connecting!” or a templated PDF drop.
Trust doesn’t start with a bot. It starts with presence.
🧍♂️ This Is Personal… and Professional
In coaching, everything starts with relationship.
If I claim to help people lead with clarity and emotional intelligence, why would I let automation do my talking?
The first message you send says everything about how you think, lead, and value people. That’s not a moment I’m willing to outsource.
✅ So, What Do I Use AI For?
I use it as a thinking partner, not a stand-in:
- Drafting ideas
- Testing angles
- Improving structure
- Speeding up admin
But I’ll never use it to mimic my voice in a one-to-one message. Especially not when trust and human insight are at the core of what I do.
🧭 Leadership Is Getting More Human… Not Less
This is bigger than just LinkedIn etiquette.
It’s about how we choose to show up.
If the first impression you make is robotic, what does that say about your leadership?
In a world obsessed with speed and scale, I’m choosing real.
If you value real connection and human-first leadership — we’ll probably get along.
Let’s talk. A free 30-minute clarity call might be the start of something game-changing.
I’m Laurence Loxam – I’ve pushed limits in business, on mountains, and at the finish line.
Now I help elite professionals do the same, pushing past the point most people stop.
I coach CEOs, doctors, lawyers, and founders who’ve hit success, but still feel there’s more.
Together, we unlock clarity, sharpen confidence, and lead with conviction.
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